If desired, donations may be given to the charity of your choice helping children.
Kathleen M. Muehlbauer of Milwaukee, Wisconsin, age 76, passed away at home unexpectedly Saturday June 6, 2026, after a courageous 50+ year battle with Multiple Sclerosis. She was born on December 20, 1949 daughter of George and Marion (Oehmen) Muehlbauer, 5 minutes after her twin brother Michael.
She is survived by her devoted lifelong partner of 44 years, Neil McIntosh, beloved brother and sisters: Ken (Teri) Muehlbauer, Michael Muehlbauer, Marlene (Dan) Vanderboom, Patti (Rick) Peplinski; loving nieces and nephews: David Muehlbauer, Meghan (John) Wetzel, Karen (Sarah) Muehlbauer, Sarah (Jeremy) Skalitzky, George Muehlbauer, Jeane (Jeremy) Boness, Lisa (Damir) Peplinski; Great nieces and nephews: Nicky, Haley, McKayla, Michael, Dillon, Coraline, Christian, Samuel, Brooklyn, Isaiah, Kieran, Lydia, Charlotte, and Luci. She is also survived by Aunt Lois Tesch, many cousins and friends.
She was preceded in death by her parents George and Marion (Oehmen) Muehlbauer, niece Helen Farmer, sister-in-law Janet Muehlbauer and other relatives.
Kathleen grew up in Wauwatosa, Wisconsin, graduating from Messmer High School class of 1968, UW Madison 1973 with a degree in Physical Medicine, licensed Physical Therapist, followed by master’s degrees in Psychology, Social Work and Early Childhood Education. She worked many jobs with her favorite at Curative Workshop working with infants and young children. She loved her job! She also loved helping others through many volunteer experiences from infants to teens and adults. Kathleen had an endless thirst for knowledge.
Kathleen loved life, family and friends. She had a great sense of humor. She loved a good intellectual debate, was an avid reader and writer and always got the big words in her favorite game Scrabble. She enjoyed cheering on the Bucks and the Badgers.
Kathleen didn’t allow her physical challenges to prevent her from enjoying a full and vibrant life. It was very important for her to be independent, only allowing help when she asked! Schedules and routines became very important.
As a child she played piano and accordion leading to lifelong love of music, theater and the Arts. Before and after her M.S. diagnosis, she enjoyed biking, folk dancing, skiing, sky diving, golfing, karate, swimming, kayaking, photography, cooking, sharing meals, nature, camping, world travelling, concerts, fairs, comedy clubs, clowning, Bridge, games, writing, and too many other activities to list them all! We are all amazed at the travels she took with crutches and a wheelchair! When she no longer could do the things she loved, she took an early retirement at 55. She joined a Writers Workshop and became a published poet.
A story she self-wrote last year, sums up her life the best:
An Interesting Road by Kathleen Muehlbauer Writers Workshop 2025 United States.
Can a nine-year-old make a lifetime decision? I decided to become a physical therapist and help children with polio learn how to walk again. By the time I was a therapist polio had been eradicated in the United States.
I chose to study at the University of Wisconsin-Madison. There, I had the special opportunity to train with twenty-five other physical therapists from around the United States. It was a three-month nine-to-five intensive training course on handling babies with cerebral palsy or developmental delays. We used our hands in special ways to increase or decrease muscle tone so the baby could move and then again using our hands in particular ways the child could develop normal motor skills. I loved my job!
Suddenly I was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis. The babies were too heavy for me. I had to find another career, so I went to graduate school and became a psychotherapist. I went from facilitating muscles for movement to guiding minds emotionally and psychologically so that an individual could try to reach their life goals or solve problems. I practiced individual, family and couples therapy. I also taught communication skills and stress management.
Physical barriers impeded my way and I chose to take an early retirement at fifty-five. I joined a Writer’s Workshop and have become a published poet. I will continue to write.
My partner of forty-four years is now also disabled and we lead a quiet, content, pleasant life. I am seventy-five years old.
Kathleen loved giving and her wish was to continue giving back through research. Her brain will continue to help others with her donation to the Medical College Wisconsin Brain Bank. Further research of her brain will help others with neurological disorders such as multiple sclerosis.
Another of her writings from 2023 titled “Things I have forgotten” is why we will never forget Kathleen. She leaves us with many heartfelt memories. She will be forever missed, forever loved! Her writing referred to being blessed with wonderful siblings, spending her life with a “fantastic man that I dearly love” and being blessed every night with “good night darling.” Goodnight Kathleen, we will see you in our dreams!
Kathleen’s Celebration of Life and farewell service will be held at at Krause Funeral Home, 9000 West Capitol Drive, Milwaukee, Wisconsin on Saturday June 27, 2026.
Visitation 1:00 PM – 2:45PM,
Service 3:00PM
If desired, donations may be given to the charity of your choice helping children.
Kathleen M. Muehlbauer of Milwaukee, Wisconsin, age 76, passed away at home unexpectedly Saturday June 6, 2026, after a courageous 50+ year battle with Multiple Sclerosis. She was born on December 20, 1949 daughter of George and Marion (Oehmen) Muehlbauer, 5 minutes after her twin brother Michael. She is survived by her devoted lifelong partnerContinue Reading