This isn’t your ordinary obituary. Oh yes, Dan was born, he lived, he died. But that doesn’t say anything about Dan. No need to say Bantz, just Dan will do.
That obituary doesn’t tell that a visit to 7 1/2-mile road would lead to a 7 1/2-mile tour of at least cases with as many drawers containing carefully preserved moths and butterflies and various creepy crawlies. It also doesn’t tell you that he would take a selection of these drawers on tour to whatever classroom would have him for show and tell. It doesn’t tell you that the police in the area knew the car parked askew off the roadside belonged to Dr. Moth, who was just collecting butterfly chrysalis he’d placed in the bushes weeks earlier.
That obit doesn’t tell you of Dan’s science teaching – that his principal would wonder, almost in trepidation, what science magic he would do to start the year off with a bang (and how much it would cost to repaint some walls or ceiling). It doesn’t tell you that he took these students to award winning State and national science fairs for years on end.
That ordinary obit doesn’t tell you that he’d made goop with his nephews and nieces in and then spent hours playing with them. It doesn’t tell you that he showed the boys how to hold a skeet gun or pick ripe bell peppers or ride the grass mower.
It doesn’t tell you that an evening could be a bowl of popcorn and a sampling of bourbon or fine wine.
A standard obituary doesn’t tell you of his shared love with Pat for the Cudahy Public Library-the hours spent reorganizing spaces, shelving books and preparing for the fundraising events and even having a cup of tea!
What obituary can say what affection and generosity, tenderness and happiness Dan and Pat have had for their families. This sounds like an obit for Pat, too, but it’s not possible to separate those two when talking about family. Those years of sharing their house without question for days and weeks at a time is just the external way of sharing their fondness and love. Thanks, Dan.
To be sure, there is no way that this writing can tell what love Dan and Pat have for each other. Being devoted to each other and caring for each other doesn’t even start. So, we won’t.
A Memorial Gathering will be held on Friday, October 2, 2026, at Cudahy Family Library, 3500 Library Dr, Cudahy, WI 53110, from 1:00 PM to 4:00 PM.
In lieu of flowers memorials are appreciated to Cudahy Family Library or Pine View Animal Rehabilitation and Education Center.
This isn’t your ordinary obituary. Oh yes, Dan was born, he lived, he died. But that doesn’t say anything about Dan. No need to say Bantz, just Dan will do. That obituary doesn’t tell that a visit to 7 1/2-mile road would lead to a 7 1/2-mile tour of at least cases with as manyContinue Reading