Offer to Help

Giving Graciously

When a loved one dies, there is so much to manage. Errands, driving kids to and from school, and cooking meals can all seem overwhelming when planning a funeral and mourning a loved one.

Perhaps the most gracious gesture is providing specific help. Instead of saying, “Let me know how I can help,” offer practical assistance.

• Answer the phone and greet visitors
• Notify family friends about funeral arrangements
• Pick up out-of-town visitors from the airport
• Cook and deliver a meal or coordinate others to deliver meals
• Provide transportation to the funeral events
• Provide pet or childcare
• Run errands
• Keep young children occupied at the visitation or service
• Help with household tasks (lawn care, snow removal, driving)